Not all women but most, I bet there are some women who do genuinely look for positives in negative situations, and I am sure there are some women who you could say something to whilst drunk and they wouldn't hold it against you or emotionally blackmail you with it for the rest of your life, or until you get to the point where you can know longer be bothered to listen to them, you have realised they have put some weight on and have entered the "comfort zone" which isn't good, that you have begun fancy other chicks more and all of a sudden they're shit just isn't worth taking and it is time they hassled someone else and just when you have plucked up the courage to tell the to stick it where they would never let you, you begin to have doubts, you begin to realise you are doing exactly what they do and blowing one thing that perhaps you are responsible for out of proportion and letting drive you mad. So you just carry on looking for temporary happiness again and wondering - maybe i am emotionally fragile.....